Sunday, May 30, 2010

Parfait Perfection


I've decided to make a couple of changes in my life regarding the things I put into my body. My good friend Anna (the one who went to New York with me) is studying to be a dietitian and she was just appalled when she discovered what I was eating. I used the excuse of being a poor college student to justify eating sugary cereal, ramen and cookies all day because they are cheap, but I wasn't aware of the effect it was having on my body! Besides not ever having any energy I was frequently feeling ill, and it sure as heck wasn't doing my figure any favors.

So in an effort to revamp my eating habits I have thrown out all the food that Anna deemed terrifying and replaced it with a balanced diet (which really wasn't as hard as I thought it would be).

Today for breakfast I was eating a parfait, and I realized that it was decidedly loli! Parfaits are perfectly sweet and refreshing, and when combined with a cup of tea they are a great way to start your day. Besides being healthy and delectable, parfaits are also very easy to make. All you need is your favorite fruit, granola and yogurt of any flavor. If you are hosting a tea party any time soon it might be fun to let your guests create custom parfaits instead of serving cupcakes!

Here is a quick and easy tutorial I found on We Heart It:

Saturday, May 29, 2010

When The Prince Isn't Charming


Being happy with yourself and enjoying life without a significant other is very important, in fact you will probably have the most fun of your life in the periods of time when you are single, but most of us one day envision sharing our lives with another person. Now if you are on the look out for true love, you may have noticed that wearing loli eliminates a good 50-70% of suitors. Lets face it, loli can be a little intimating for the uninitiated, and it may be too much for certain people. I feel that this is why many lolis grab onto the first suitor that shows any interest in them, they are simply worried that no one else will.
But what if the person who accepts that side of you just isn't the right fit? It's unhealthy to cling to a relationship just because of clothing, and unfortunately some lolis will accept, nay, welcome partners who treat them poorly just because they are supportive of their fashion choices. This is ridiculous. 

A true love should:
  • Understand your humor.
  • Think you are gorgeous inside and out.
  • Be accepting of your flaws.
  • Be thankful they have found you.
  • Keep in mind that they love you even when arguing.
  • Make you feel happy.
  • Help you feel beautiful both emotionally and physically.
If your prince or princess is making you feel bad about yourself instead of all of the above and more then you should flee this ball. No matter how much you try to squiggle your foot in, that slipper is not going to fit. It may be sad, but by ditching Mr/Mrs Wrong you leave yourself open to meet your true love! And besides, why put all the effort into looking great if you are going to let someone make you feel anything less than beautiful?

If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship (physical or otherwise) make sure to do something about it. It may be heartbreaking and difficult but your safety is paramount! For more information check out Miss Lumpy's article on the subject.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Dress Up Box: Tartan Treat


Yesterday was my day off, so I got dressed up in one of my favorite coordinates! My Baby the Stars Shine Bright set is so cute, wearing it always makes me feel happy! I really want to get a black blouse so that I can coordinate it with black next time and see how that looks.


My hair accessory of choice were pink sunglasses! When you live in Florida they are very practical!

And cute too!

I just love the mini tie on my tartan set (I wish I knew what it was called), it has Charmmy Kitty on it! 


I love my earrings, they were a graduation present from my mum!

Sunglasses: Delias
Blouse: Bodyline
Tie and skirt: Baby the Stars Shine Bright
Socks: Baby the Stars Shine Bright
Shoes: Bodyline

Monday, May 24, 2010

The Disney-Loli Dress Code


Walt Disney World is a popular vacation destination for many people the world over as it is full of magic and excitement! It can be even more magical if you spend your day wearing what makes you feel the most special, which in many cases for us is loli. Unfortunately wearing loli to the parks has been a very hit or miss experience for some. Disney does not allow adults to enter the park in costume as it can be misleading to other guests who may think they are a character, and to Disney, loli falls under the category of costumes. Some lolis are allowed into the parks and report no problems, but others are turned away at the gates or told that they must change even when they are inside the parks! I thought that this was a huge problem, so for a long time I have been gathering information from cast members around the four Disney World parks to give me a proper idea of what they would, and would not allow in the parks loli wise.

In order to achieve honest results I interviewed over 50 cast members on what they would and would not allow into the parks. I showed pictures of real loli girls (that were submitted by you all in this post, thank you so much!) and loli models and asked them specific questions as to why they would or would not let a guest dressed like this inside the park. I was often able to determine how a guest could modify an outfit so that they would be allowed inside.

I have compiled the information that I discovered into this guide to make your trip a little easier. Keep in mind though that this is not an official dress code, nor has it been approved by Disney, so if you have any problems getting in the park saying "But on the Disney-Loli Dress Code it said this was fine" will hold no authority. However if you do have any problems let me know and I will update the guide accordingly.


Hair

I am listing hair first because it was one of the most common reasons that lolis would be denied entry to the parks. The characters in the parks wear wigs, so any hair that looks unnatural is automatically going to send up red flags with cast members.
It is best to wear your hair in a natural style, of course that means that you can still curl it, put it in pigtails and things like that, but things like falls and unnatural coloured wigs are out. In general it's just best to skip the wig and style your own hair, but of course if you still want to wear a wig you can, just make sure it doesn't look artificial.

Hair Accessory

What you wear on your head is very important. Almost every cast member I talked to said that head eating bows and bonnets looked "costumey" and would contribute to a girl not being allowed inside the park. However accessories like Alice bows, barrettes and hats passed with flying colors. Oh, and a cool thing is that almost any unacceptable outfit was made acceptable by topping it off with Mickey Ears, proving that you are in fact a guest.

Make Up

Make up should look natural and fresh, anything that looks like it could be stage make up will be scrutinized. Surprisingly though this does not apply to gothic style make up. Disney is not commonly associated with this kind of dark style, and it seems that other guests will pick up on the fact that you aren't a character straight away. I was happily surprised to find that the cast members I interviewed hardly ever objected to gothic make up, no matter how over the top it was!

Outfit

Your jumperskirt, dress or skirt is the main component of you outfit, the center that ties everything together and is the most treasured piece of the coordinate. It is also the thing that will make you stand out the most as most people do not walk around in something that resembles the shape of a cupcake! 
Most cast members were in favor of letting girls into the park who were wearing solids, floral prints or simple prints in a variety of pastels, muted shades and black. However many of the more over the top Angelic Pretty pieces were denied on the spot. Some cast members compromised saying that if the other elements of the loli outfit was toned down then the OTT piece would be appropriate, but others stood firm on the issue claiming that no matter what the rest of the outfit looked like the main piece was just too "costumey" (don't you love that word?). So feel free to wear your favorite prints, but wear the bold, busy ones at your own risk!

Socks
  
Although socks are adorable, especially in cute patterns, they are very impracticable for the heat of Orlando. No one wears socks if they can help it so, believe it or not, they say "character" loud and clear! It's best to go with bare legs, once you spend about five minutes in the Florida heat you'll understand why!

Shoes

Loli shoes defintily fell into the "costume" category as far as cast members were concerned. However tea party shoes in white, black and brown are acceptable. It's a good idea not to wear anything with a heel, loli or not, as a lot of walking is involved in a Disney trip. I'd say your best bet is to go shopping for some cute and comfy sneakers or flats just for your trip.

Bag 

Try to bring bags that look like bags, not stars, candy, bunnies or other non-bag items. Your bag can still be super adorable and compliment your outfit, and chances are that it will hold more than a themed bag would anyway!

I hope that this article helped you to plan your outfit for your next trip to Walt Disney World. Remember, these aren't hard fast rules, just suggestions, so don't feel limited when putting together your special coordinate. Let me know when you'll be there, maybe you could come visit me at work! <3

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Video: A Trip To New York

Just a heads up, I have added a new feature to my blog! It is Link Within, a widget that recommends past articles to readers under every post helping you find similar posts you may have missed. I don't want past entries to go unread, so please check them out!

I added a new video, this one is about my trip to New York (I promise, this will be the last you hear of it for a while, I know everyone must be sick of me talking about it) and features video from Tokyo Rebel, the Sanrio Couture store and random places around the city! I hope that you like it!

Friday, May 21, 2010

Little Loli, Big City: Day Two

My second day of wearing loli in the city was very fun. I went for a much more sweet outfit than I would usually pick, but I still liked it a whole lot. We didn't do as much that day as we had a plane to catch, but it was fun nonetheless.


I wore the same blouse as I had the day before, but don't worry, I was wearing a t-shirt under it to make sure it didn't get yucky!

Bow: Angelic Pretty
Blouse: Kids Yoyo
Skirt: Angelic Pretty
Bag: Angelic Pretty
Socks: Baby the Stars Shine Bright
Shoes: Bodyline


Anna and I had lunch at an Indian restaurant which was delicious! When we were done we pulled out a wish from the box in this cute setting.


When we went to Central Park we saw these adorable little boys selling their toys, they were putting the money towards the oil spill disaster. They were so sweet, we gave them all our change!


Their sign was too cute! Especially the part at the bottom which says "Employes" and lists their names.


Anna and I took a quick picture and gave a fond farewell to New York. It was a wonderful trip and we can't wait to go back!

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Moon Night Story Bag Review

When I first saw the Moon Night Story bag by Angelic Pretty I absolutely fell in love with it. I thought about it for a few days before buying it because I had some reservations about paying full price for a new, designer bag, but in the end I realized that if I saved up for it and appreciated it then it seemed like a good thing to do for myself. So I ordered it with Mai, paid it up over the months and now it's finally here!

The first thing I can say about the Moon Night Story bag is that it's incredibly well constructed. Despite it not being made of leather you can feel that it's very sturdy and made of high quality materials.

I love the little details of the bag, like the Cinderella "stamp" on the side, the cute heart clasps and the fact that it's mint on the inside. I keep discovering new surprises which make me even happier.

This bag does not hold a lot, but that's also kind of a good thing. My bags tend to get clogged up with receipts and random stuff which eventually I have to sit down and clean out, but that would not happen at all with this bag. I was able to fit my phone, camera, brush and wallet in this bag but it was a very tight fit!

And unlike many loli bags you can wear this bag with mainstream outfits, you can't really say the same thing for bags shaped like candy or stuffed bunny back packs!

Overall I'd give this bag a 10/10. It's beautiful, well made and makes me happy. Everywhere I go I get compliments on it!

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Little Loli, Big City: Day One

I recently went to New York with my good friend Anna for my best friends wedding. We had two days to do as we pleased, so of course we explored Times Square, visited Tokyo Rebel and took way to many pictures!


Our flight arrived at around 6am, so naturally we looked exhausted when we landed. However we crammed into a tiny little bathroom and got changed into our "New York" outfits and put on make up. It's so hard to get changed in a tiny stall when you are putting on piles of petticoats, but it's even harder when your friend is in there miming drowning in the frills and cracking you up!


My outfit unintentionally reminded me of The Town Mouse and the Country Mouse story. I totally felt like the country mouse, but I enjoyed that. This outfit is pretty much all offbrand, but it's one of my favorites!


We came across an amazing little bookstore stuffed with vintage books. There were plenty that I wanted but they were all so expensive.

Mandatory stereotypical reading for lolis!

Bialystock and Bloom!


We then went to the Hello Kitty Couture store in Times Square. I seriously could have bought everything in the store, but I limited myself to one t-shirt and a gift for my Mum. Anna bought a cute clutch as seen here!

I was so surprised to see this!


We wanted to go see The Phantom of the Opera (or Phantom of the Oprah as Anna calls it) so much but it just wasn't in the cards for us. We did get a great picture though!


After hours of getting lost on the subway, searching, and getting pointed in the wrong direction we finally found Tokyo Rebel! I was so happy that I only took this one picture outside the store front before dashing in! 


We stumbled upon a lovely garden very close by to the Tokyo Rebel store and just had to take some photos! Anna is a very good photographer so most of them were of me, but I was happy to get this one together.


I like that you can see my full outfit in this picture.


This is definitely my favorite picture that she took of me. I was looking at some cute turtles in a pond, trying to figure out if they were real.


They were a super cute turtle family!

There will be more pictures to come later of my second day in New York, and probably some more from day one, once I get my hands on  Annas memory card.

What I wore:
Hat: Borrowed from Anna
Blouse: Kids YoYo
Bag: Angelic Pretty
Skirt: Bodyline
Socks: Baby the Stars Shine Bright
Shoes: Bodyline

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Birthday Video!

Ok, so I haven't been updating recently because I was out having adventures in New York, but for the next few days I will be updating daily.

Here is the video I made of my birthday, I hope that you like it!

Friday, May 14, 2010

Enjoy The Little Things


Happy is a state of mind,
So try your very best to find,
The positive in neutral,
The sunlight through the clouds.

Remember what you're wearing,
And all day feel cute and daring,
Because even mundane tasks,
Can feel dazzling that way.

Hum while you are baking,
Beam sometimes when you are aching,
And everyone you meet will know,
How beautiful you are.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Special Delivery!


Sorry that I haven't updated in a while, I have picked up a bunch of shifts so when I'm not at work I'm asleep. However, this morning my package from Mai arrived so I thought I'd post a couple of pictures! My friends were all nursing hangovers at my apartment (I was the only one to neither get drunk nor throw up) so sorry about my messy living room!


Posing with my package. I was up until dawn taking care of my friends, hence my exhausted face.


My poor invalid roommate insisted on us "dressing her up" while she was recovering on her mattress, which she somehow dragged into the living room in the middle of the night. She looked like a terrifying paper doll!

My package contained my new Angelic Pretty bag and my Baby the Stars Shine Bright Red Riding Hood set! I've been putting aside $5-$15 per paycheck since January in order to afford them. I love them both so much!!

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Any Questions?

Summer vacation will be upon us very shortly which means that our community will be flooded with new lolis! There are many girls, especially those of a younger age, who decide that the summer holidays are a great time to enthusiastically take the plunge into loli fashion and subsequently have a lot of questions to ask. And where will the be asking them? Why on the main EGL Livejournal community of course!

Asking questions is never a bad thing, however they can be met with somewhat frustrated answers on live journal, or the ever popular "search the memories" response. Many lolis become quite irritated by the same questions being asked over and over, and their grouchy replies have a tendency to scare off newbies. I think this is the main reason that the EGL community has earned the reputation of being ultra scary and critical towards new members. Many lolis say that asking questions makes them feel anxious and stupid, but there is nothing stupid about wanting to learn!

If you are a new loli then the best thing to do, in my opinion, is to get yourself a loli mentor. There is a community for this on livejournal, but if you have a frilly friend or aquaintance in the area then they will probably be more than happy to help you get started. That way you can ask them all the questions you may have without making a million posts on the main community.

 If you are a seasoned rufflebutt try your best to be polite to the newbies and remember that if you don't have anything nice to say it's best not to say anything at all. It can be annoying to see the same question posted more than once in a day, but it takes longer to leave a rude comment than it takes to scroll past the post. Besides, everyone has questions, even lolis who have been into the fashion for years.

It's common sense to ask questions about things you are unsure of. I mean would you really spend a couple of hundred dollars on a new dress without knowing the measurements? Were you born with the knowledge of what constitutes good and bad lace? There is always room for improvement which means that we never stop learning, so don't be afraid to ask questions if you can't find the answer to something.

"The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing." -Albert Einstein.

Friday, May 7, 2010

It's Party Time!


My birthday this year was possibly one of the best ones I've had so far! Julie let me borrow her Magical Etoile jumperskirt which I simply adored wearing, and I had myself a dessert party!


All of my friends showed up, and in true Raegan fashion I made them all wear head accessories. I was surprised that I actually had enough to go around, we kept joking that the next person to join the party would get a frilly sock taped to their head in lieu of an actual accessory.


As well as buying my cute cake (which was the only thing served that I did not bake myself), Lucia also gave me a birthday kiss!


My best friend, Vince, of almost 10 years finally got to attend one of my birthday parties! For the past few years he has been fighting in Iraq on my birthday so I was ecstatic that he could be there!


I just love this picture of my friends and I despite it looking like the camera was about to fall over!


One last picture of Julie and I before we de-frilled and got ready for the pool! Also, this just in; I am very short even with the added height of a head eating bow!


After we had frolicked in the pool and my guests had left I got changed once again, this time into my outfit for the Disney College Programs Spring Formal! It's strange, in high school all the dances were held on my birthday too. I was wearing my traditional birthday tiara for the fourth year in a row but it's rather hard to see it in the pictures.


My girls and I in the lobby of the Coronodo Springs Resort, where the formal was being held. I thought it was adorable that my roommate, Jess, asked if she could wear my head eating bow with her outfit!


I didn't take too many pictures at the formal, but lots of people took pictures of/with me which was surprising. I was able to ask a random stranger to quickly snap a photo of Vince and I after she was done taking one of me and her roommate.
~*Bonus*~
My pen pal, Dallian, hand made me this beautiful card for my birthday. I was so astounded when I opened my package from her, she is just so artistically gifted! The upper envelope contained a wonderful "Fairytale Life" cd and the lower envelope contained a whole collection of darling charms! The whole thing is now proudly displayed on my pin board!

Sorry that this post was so picture heavy! A video is yet to come once I figure out how to make that happen (I'm so not tech savvy). Also, I wanted to say a big thank you to everyone who wished me a happy birthday in the comments of my last post, I didn't expect that at all and it really made my day!

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